Well hello there beautiful! I wanted to get into a subject that is very controversial in the Wiccan community but I really think it needs to be addressed, especially for the newcomers to this path. Ever since I started dabbling into Wicca I’ve noticed there have been all kinds of goodies available online to our community that help aid spell, ritual, and divination work. I’ve also noticed that a lot of these items only come with a couple materials, or only come as themselves without any type of documentation or instructions on how to use or empower it. I want to say strongly that no matter what item you buy online, no matter how much it states that it has been empowered by some mystical 5th generation witch, when it comes to you doing a specific spell for you - that witch has not made that personal connection with your intention. They do not know exactly how much you desire this outcome. They could cast a small spell to bring the new owner of this item what they wish for the highest good of all, but no magical intention will be as strong as you manifesting it for yourself. When it comes to wanting something in life, no one is going to want it as badly as you do, so when someone says something will bring you all that you desire if you “make this purchase” it is generally left up to you to manifest that magic. I have seen countless people angry about a spell not working, or that they purchased a little spell pack that had herbs and a candle, etc. They “preformed” the spell without manifesting any desire or intention setting and expected it to work - only to realize that it didn’t. Then, in turn, the seller ends up getting burned for promoting “faulty” products.
When you are a seller in the Wiccan community, it is your obligation to provide your buyers with the necessary steps for them to complete their spell. It takes a long time to learn about all of the different correspondences, and most of all, how to set a proper intention. We were all new to this path at some point and had to learn with trial and error, but I think if you have the knowledge you should be willing to share it. I wanted to share some steps with you on how to set a proper intention when casting a spell. I hope it helps aid your work, and remember to always keep the highest good of all in mind.
Intention Setting:
First off, what I like to do is cleanse myself physically. I do this by taking a nice relaxing bath or shower. I even go to the extent of filling a small muslin bag with coarse sea salt and cleansing herbs. I wash my whole body with this, and just take the time to relax and let my mind go for a small amount of time. Its so important to prep yourself before setting an intention. Its also especially important to be in the right state of mind. If you want to manifest something when you’re upset, or angry - don’t. You will only regret it later, and you could end up hurting someone. The last thing you want to do is hurt another or yourself.
Next, I like to dress in something comfortable and cool. I don’t want to be wearing anything constricting or uncomfortable - because when setting an intention your mind needs to be completely focused.
After dressing, its good to always preform a light meditation of some kind. Grounding and centering is honestly one of my favorite meditations. There’s so many different ways you can do it, and after you will feel absolutely incredible. I do want to press though that it does take quite some time to master meditation - don’t give up the first few tries just because your mind tends to wander.
You also can cleanse your area if you like with some kind of smudging tool or spray. I offer a special cleansing crystal essence spray in my store if you are interested. Some people can’t stand the smell of white sage, so its often a better solution to try and purchase some kind of spray, but whatever works best for you is whats most important.
After, you are ready to begin your spell. You can get all your items together, make sure not to leave anything behind, and then cast your sacred space. Once circle casting (I’ve written a blog post about different types of circle casting as well so please be sure to take the time to read it if you need some suggestions! http://wildwood-creations.blogspot.com ), be sure to let your mind go. Try to stare at a candle flame - that always helps me. It will let your inhibitions go, and you will be ready to set your intention.
Once you’re in a calm, relaxed state of mind, start focusing on your desire as if it already has been achieved. For instance, if you want to become pregnant - focus on having a big pregnant tummy, watching the little one move inside of you, your loved ones touching your tummy, seeing a beautiful new nursery - think of all of the things that would happen if it came to pass. This is the most important part of intention setting. Once you’ve thought hard about all of those wonderful things that can come along with your desire - thank the universe, state that you want it for the highest good of all, and so mote it be.
It does take some time to really achieve the proper mental state to set intention but it will definitely come with practice. I have done many success and prosperity spells in my past, and they have all worked wonderfully. Just be patient with yourself, and trust that you can manifest whatever you desire in this world. You can do it, and I believe in you. I hope this has been helpful, and please let me know if you have any questions!